WeWe often hear the terms Grief and Bereavement used together, they can manifest themselves in either order or simultaneously to differing degrees. However it is noteworthy that these terms are not synonymous, and in fact have very different definitions.
GRIEF: noun
- deep and poignant distress caused by as if by bereavement
- a cause of such suffering
Grief manifests itself in many different ways, there is not a right or wrong way to grieve. Grief isn't something that you get over, but rather something that you come to terms with and find ways of facing a new day without the part of you that has been lost. Moving on with your life isn't about forgetting your loved one, but rather honoring them and remembering them in special ways and paying tribute to them by continuing to talk about them, and sharing good times and happy memories with others. Sharing these memories with some who knew them and perhaps others that never got the opportunity to know them, but nonetheless are a part of your life and wish to share in the aspects that they missed out on allows you to talk about the days past, as you move ahead to the life ahead of you.
While bereavement is often mentioned after grief, it is indeed usually occurs immediately when you lose someone.
BEREAVEMENT: noun
the state or fact of being bereaved or deprived of someone or something.
So while we often say Grief and Bereavement, it is actually just the opposite, the loss usually occurs prior to grief taking place. However, having said that, sometimes in the case of terminal illness, grieving will and often does takes place prior to the death of your loved ones. This does not always happen, but if you are experiencing this, we can and will talk about it either with you alone or with your loved one. It is often helpful for you to be able to speak openly with one another about your feelings.
We can have sessions individually, with your partner, or even group sessions with the entire family.